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Explore Your Desires Together

Swipe privately on what you'd love to explore. Your partner only sees what you both want — so every conversation starts from a yes.

Free to start. Just you and your partner.

YNM Swipe Interface - Discover shared desires by swiping on intimate experiences

Why couples love
Yes, No, Maybe

Designed to make intimate conversation feel easy, not awkward

Only mutual matches revealed

Your partner never sees your individual responses. Only when you both say yes does a match appear, keeping everything judgment-free.

No awkward conversations

You'll never know if your partner said no to something. Explore freely, discover what you share, and let the app start the conversation.

Completely private

No ads, no data sold. Your responses are never shown to your partner until you both match — encrypted and secure.

How it works

Three steps. No awkward conversations required.

Swipe privately

Browse over 100 experiences across intimacy, connection, and adventure — or create your own. Mark yes, no, or maybe, and your partner never sees your individual answers.

Swipe interface showing activity cards

Link with your partner

Scan a QR code to connect. Both of you swipe on your own device, in your own time, without any pressure.

Connect screen with QR code linking

See what you share

Unlock your match list with premium. Every experience you both said yes to — and nothing either of you said no to. Then propose one for tonight.

Matches screen showing shared interests

What happens after you both say yes

Matching is the beginning. The rest is where it actually happens.

Now tab showing tonight's connection prompt and weekly activity summary

Tonight

Say it without saying it

One tap sends your partner a quiet signal that you'd like to connect tonight. They respond privately — yes, maybe later, or not tonight. No conversation needed to start the conversation.

Premium

See where you both said yes

The free version lets you swipe every card and link with your partner. Premium unlocks your match list — every experience you both said yes or maybe to. Nothing awkward. Nothing one-sided. Just what you share.

Always free

  • Swipe every card in every category
  • Link with your partner

How it works

When one partner subscribes, both accounts unlock premium. Purchased through the App Store or Google Play inside the app.

$29.99/year

One subscription. Both partners get access.

  • Full match list

    Every experience you both said yes to — not just a preview

  • Compatibility insights

    See how aligned you are, broken down by category

  • Discussion starters

    Thoughtful prompts based on your actual shared responses

  • Match notifications

    Notified when you and your partner discover new shared desires

Download free

Premium unlocked inside the app after downloading

Annual billing keeps the price low for both of you. Cancel anytime in your app store settings.

Common questions

How does "both partners premium" work?

When you link with your partner in the app and either of you purchases a premium subscription, both accounts get premium access automatically.

Is there a free version?

Yes. The free version lets you swipe all cards and link with your partner. Upgrade in-app to unlock the full match list and insights.

What happens if we break up?

If you unlink from your partner, the person who paid keeps premium for the remainder of their billing period. You can link with a new partner at any time.

How do I cancel?

Cancel anytime through your App Store (iOS) or Google Play (Android) subscription settings. Your premium access continues until the end of your billing period.

More questions? Browse the full FAQ

Discover what you both actually want

Swipe privately, link with your partner, and let the app reveal what you share. Free to start.

Private. Secure. No ads. Just the two of you. See what premium includes