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Explore Your Desires Together

Swipe privately on what you'd love to explore. Your partner only sees what you both want — so every conversation starts from a yes.

Free to start. Just you and your partner.

YNM Swipe Interface - Discover shared desires by swiping on intimate experiences

Why couples love Yes, No, Maybe

Designed to make intimate conversation feel easy, not awkward

Only mutual matches revealed

Your partner never sees your individual responses. Only when you both say yes does a match appear — keeping everything judgment-free.

No awkward conversations

You'll never know if your partner said no to something. Explore freely, discover what you share, and let the app start the conversation.

Completely private

No ads, no data sold. Your responses are never shown to your partner until you both match — encrypted and secure.

How it works

Get started in three steps — discover shared desires in minutes

Swipe on intimate activities

Browse 100+ intimate experiences. Mark yes, no, or maybe privately — your partner can't see your individual responses.

Swipe interface showing intimate activity cards

Link with your partner

Scan a secure QR code to connect. Both of you swipe independently in a judgment-free space.

Connect screen with QR code linking options

Discover shared desires

Unlock mutual matches with premium. Get compatibility insights and personalized discussion starters.

Matches dashboard showing shared interests and compatibility

More ways to connect

Powerful features to deepen your intimate connection

Track Your Progress

See your journey unfold as you explore categories. Track responses across Comfortable, Adventurous, and Intense experiences.

Progress dashboard showing cards explored and response breakdown

Propose Experiences Together

Found a match? Take the next step by proposing when to try it. Choose timing, add notes, and make plans together.

Propose experience dialog for planning shared activities

The framework, explained

Start with the essential guide, then explore deeper topics at your own pace.

The essential guide

What is a Yes, No, Maybe List? A Complete Guide for Couples

Discover how a Yes, No, Maybe list helps couples communicate openly about intimacy. Learn the history, how therapists use it, and how to have the conversation.

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Couples Therapy: What It Is, When to Go, and How It Works

A practical guide to couples therapy — what happens in sessions, the main approaches therapists use, how to find one in the UK, and when an app fits alongside.

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Relationship Apps: What They Do and When They Help

A clear guide to relationship apps — what each type actually does, why starting through an app can be easier, and the conversation most apps don't help with.

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Couple Joy: What Creates It and How to Find More of It

Couple joy is not luck. Discover what builds shared joy between partners, why it fades in long relationships, and how honest conversation opens it back up.

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Best Relationship Apps for Couples: What Actually Works

A practical guide to the best relationship apps for couples — what each app does well, which suits your situation, and one category most roundups skip.

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How to Use a Yes, No, Maybe List (Step by Step)

A step-by-step guide to using a Yes, No, Maybe list with your partner — from filling it out separately to having the conversation about your results.

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The Digital Yes, No, Maybe: Why Apps Make This Easier

Why a private app makes the Yes, No, Maybe list easier for most couples — less awkwardness, more honest answers, and only the results you both agree on.

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Yes, No, Maybe List: Common Questions Answered

Straight answers to the most common questions couples ask about Yes, No, Maybe lists — who they are for, when to use them, and what to do when you disagree.

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Premium

See where you both said yes

The free version lets you swipe every card and link with your partner. Premium unlocks your match list — every experience you both said yes or maybe to. Nothing awkward. Nothing one-sided. Just what you share.

Always free

  • Swipe every card in every category
  • Link with your partner

How it works

When one partner subscribes, both accounts unlock premium. Purchased through the App Store or Google Play inside the app.

$29.99 / year

One subscription. Both partners get access.

  • Full match list

    Every experience you both said yes to — not just a preview

  • Compatibility insights

    See how aligned you are, broken down by category

  • Discussion starters

    Thoughtful prompts based on your actual shared responses

  • Match notifications

    Notified when you and your partner discover new shared desires

Download free

Premium unlocked inside the app after downloading

Annual billing keeps the price low for both of you. Cancel anytime in your app store settings.

Common questions

How does "both partners premium" work?

When you link with your partner in the app and either of you purchases a premium subscription, both accounts get premium access automatically.

Is there a free version?

Yes. The free version lets you swipe all cards and link with your partner. Upgrade in-app to unlock the full match list and insights.

What happens if we break up?

If you unlink from your partner, the person who paid keeps premium for the remainder of their billing period. You can link with a new partner at any time.

How do I cancel?

Cancel anytime through your App Store (iOS) or Google Play (Android) subscription settings. Your premium access continues until the end of your billing period.

More questions? Browse the full FAQ

Discover what you both actually want

Swipe privately, link with your partner, and let the app reveal what you share. Free to start.

Private. Secure. No ads. Just the two of you. — See what premium includes